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While some people enjoy being spanked or even become aroused from it, for example, they may not want any sort of penetration or sexual activity beyond that. You can view it as a lifestyle and get involved in your local community or simply enjoy occasional spanking and biting. Next, go slower than you think you need to.
For example, you might start with spanking and add a blindfold in later. Cover a paddle or your hand in some a mitt to dull the pain before moving to direct skin or paddle contact. Start with any clamps on the loosest setting, so on and so forth. Before you do anything, consider a safe word or al to let each other know if you need to slow down or stop all together.
about safe words and BDSM contracts. Do not be afraid to use your safe word. You can always a scene, but neither of you will want to deal with the physical or emotional consequences of not using a safe word! Be prepared with a first aid kit, a charged phone and a scissors that can cut through any cuffs, chains or other bondage item with ease.
Stay away from silk or other materials that can tighten when the person who is bound struggled against them. Metal cuffs can chafe uncomfortably, so look for nylon or leather cuffs for longer scenes. Starting slow helps to work your body up to more intense pain and also gives you the opportunity to halt or slow down stimulation before you might accidentally cause serious damage.
Hitting internal organs such as the kidneys can have serious effects. After a session, even it if seems rather tame, one or both of you might need some time for aftercare, a word that refers to paying attention to emotional and physical needs. Food, water, a blanket, cuddling or a massage may all be part of aftercare. Depending upon your activities, you may need more or less aftercare. Checking in the next morning or a few days down the road can be beneficial, especially if the bottom experiences a severe drop in hormones that may not happen immediately after the session ends.
How do you bring it up to your partner? This guide to sexual communication can help make the talk easier. The talk may be easier than you anticipate, however. You can have a lot of fun when venturing into BDSM. Remember, be safe and have fun!
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